The New Member Picks a Meeting Topic
Will you pick a topic for our meeting?
Will you pick a topic for our meeting?
Although good sponsorship can be a tremendous aid to a strong and successful sobriety, it must include everything possible with respect to being a "good AA citizen," too. As we grow in recovery, our ability to add to an AA group's activities must also grow. One facet of that "good citizenship" centers on the personal development of a sober AA to be an effective part of his group's functions -- in this case, making sure that meetings are accessible and effective.
Redux has mentioned before -- with respect to AA's newest members -- that our meetings are the "tip of the spear." Frightened, confused alcoholics who are attending one of their first AA meetings may be unable to actually use much of what is shared, but those of us who are more experienced know that even a few understandable, important bits of information and hope about AA and sobriety can mean everything at this stage.
This short section of Redux is actually a "pass out" sheet which was adopted by a local group at one of their group conscience meetings. The idea was a response to a realization that the group's normal routine for setting a meeting topic seemed to either intimidate or otherwise exclude some of the newer members from participating in the open discussion.
The standard process for this meeting had been to ask some member to read a few paragraphs from our basic text to set the meeting topic. The difficulty arose with the large number of members who had not attended many meetings or actually read the Big Book yet. They seemed reluctant to participate because they were unfamiliar with the casual protocol of our open discussion meetings or inexperienced with some aspect of the topic which had been chosen.
The change was simple enough. The reading would continue as before, but after the reading, a specific one or two word topic would be presented which recapped the message selected from our written text. Further, the member selecting the topic was encouraged to speak directly to the effect or result the topic might have had on his own sobriety.
The "hand out" topic selection material is included below.
Setting the Topic for Our Meeting
3 Easy Parts
3 Easy Parts
Thank you for volunteering to select a meeting topic. The general format for this process is in three parts.
Select a quotation from any approved AA literature. This short reading (usually one or two paragraphs) presents some formal AA subject matter you wish to share with the meeting.
Summarize your topic with a one or two word recap of the topic you have selected. Some examples of topic recaps are available on the list below. You are encouraged to select a reading and a topic along the same theme or idea, but this is not required. If your topic does not appear on the list, feel free to select any program theme you think will be helpful. Note that each of our Twelve Steps is included in the list -- all great meeting topics, even for our newest members!
Recount your personal experience with this part of the AA program. Please remember that our meeting is listed as a beginner’s group and direct your comments to ways which can assist newer members to better understand our AA program.
AA Traditions
Alcoholic Illusion
Alcoholic Insanity
Alcoholic Isolation
Alcoholic Loneliness
Alcoholic Thinking
Alcoholic: Anonymity
Alcoholic: As the Actor
Alcoholic: In the Family
Big Book Prayers
Big Book Stories
Carrying the Message - AA Hope
Daily Inventory
Disease of Alcoholism
Dishonest Motives
Don’t Take It Too Seriously
Easy Does It
Effective Spiritual Structure
Example Inventory
Fear
Fear Inventory
Fellowship
First Drink - No Mental Defense
First Things First
Fit Spiritual Condition
Fourth Dimension
Fourth Step Prayer
God Consciousness
Good or Dishonest Motives
Higher Power
Honesty
Hopelessness and Hope
How It Works
Humility and Humiliation
Hurt or Threatened
Life on a Spiritual Basis
Live and Let Live
Lying
Meditation in Sobriety
No Middle of the Road Solution
Perfection
Practicing AA Principles
Prayer
Real or Imaginary
Recovery From Alcoholism
Relapse - Drinking Again
Resentment
Secrets and Openness
Self-Centeredness
Self-Delusion
Self-Pity
Self-Reliance
Self-Seeking
Self-Seeking
Self-Will
Selfishness
Serenity
Serenity in Calamity
Sex Inventory
Sex, Security and Society
Sixth - Seventh Step Prayer
Sober Living
Sobriety and Recovery
Spiritual Awakening
Spiritual Experience
Spiritual Malady
Spiritual Principles
Spiritual Progress
Sponsorship
Staying Sober
Step 1
Step 2
Step 3
Step 4
Step 5
Step 6
Step 7
Step 8
Step 9
Step 10
Step 11
Step 12
Stop Fighting
The AA Meeting
The Grouch and the Brainstorm
Third Step Prayer
What He Would Have us be
Work After Recovery
Working With Others
Oh. Can't find it here? Don't worry -- YOUR topic will probably be just fine if it's somewhere in our AA Book!
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